Guest Essay | William Paparian: At the Heart of Memorial Day

Over the years, Memorial Day has transformed from a day of solemn remembrance just for Civil War soldiers to a broader commemoration. It recognizes the sacrifices of all American military personnel who have died in various conflicts, embodying the spirit of patriotism and the enduring struggle for freedom.

Though the ways we commemorate may differ, the heart of Memorial Day is a unified expression of gratitude and reverence. People of all ages reflect on the stories of bravery and sacrifice, ensuring that the legacy of these heroes lives on. While placing flags and flowers on gravesites, we reflect on the immense debt of gratitude owed to those who have made the ultimate sacrifice for our country.

The observance of Memorial Day has evolved over time, reflecting the nation’s expanding recognition of military sacrifices. Initially dedicated to Civil War soldiers, the day now honors all American military personnel who have died in various conflicts, underscoring the enduring values of liberty, justice, and patriotism. The tradition began formally in 1868 when May 30th was designated as Decoration Day. On this day, President James Garfield delivered a poignant speech at Arlington National Cemetery, emphasizing the profound significance of remembering those who had fallen.

The significance of Memorial Day extends beyond the rituals and gatherings; it is a day when the collective national spirit is rejuvenated through reflection and remembrance. Individuals across the country take a moment to honor the bravery and sacrifices that have paved the way for the freedoms enjoyed today. This annual commemoration is a solemn reminder of the price of liberty and the valor of those who fought to protect it.

Communities across the United States engage in diverse commemorative activities, from the laying of wreaths at cemeteries to the playing of “Taps” at ceremonies. These acts of remembrance help preserve the collective memory of the nation’s heroes. The tradition of placing flags and flowers on gravesites serves both as a tribute to the fallen and a reminder of the high cost of freedom.

Memorial Day stands as a testament to the bravery and selflessness of those who served, ensuring their legacy lives on through the collective memory of the nation. This day of remembrance has seen various forms of commemoration throughout the years. From the early days of flower-strewn graves to today’s elaborate ceremonies, Memorial Day has become a cornerstone of American culture. It represents not only the sacrifices of the past but also an ongoing commitment to honor those who continue to serve.

This day of remembrance is not just about honoring those who have died; it is also about recognizing the resilience and dedication of military families. The Gold Star families, who have lost loved ones in service, are especially revered. Their strength and sacrifice embody the spirit of Memorial Day, reminding us all of the personal cost of war and the enduring human spirit.

The National Observance of Memorial Day is marked by ceremonies at Arlington National Cemetery, where the President or Vice President of the United States lays a wreath at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, a poignant symbol of the nation’s gratitude. This solemn act is followed by a national moment of remembrance at 3:00 p.m. local time, where people across the country pause to reflect on the sacrifices made by the men and women of the armed forces.

The significance of Memorial Day extends beyond the historical and cultural aspects, touching the very core of what it means to be a part of a nation. It is a day that inspires unity among citizens, fostering a collective sense of gratitude and respect for those who have laid down their lives. The observance of Memorial Day serves as a powerful reminder of the cost of freedom and the enduring impact of sacrifice. It is a time for every American to reflect on the values and principles that define the nation—liberty, justice, and the pursuit of peace.

The City of Pasadena will carry on in this tradition to commemorate the sons and daughters of Pasadena who gave the ultimate sacrifice on Monday, May 26, at 10:30 a.m. at Memorial Park, 85 E. Holly St.

The ceremony will include the reading of 320 names of the men and women from Pasadena who lost their lives during World War I, World War II, the Korean War, the Vietnam War, and other conflicts. The Condor Squadron will perform a missing man formation flyover, paying tribute to those who did not return from the battle. The invocation and benediction will be delivered by Chaplain Pedro M. Trinidad, Lieutenant Commander (LCDR), USNR.

This event is sponsored by the City of Pasadena Parks, Recreation and Community Services (PRCS) Department, Rose Bowl Stadium, Pasadena Management Association, Vietnam Veterans of America, Daughters of the American Revolution, and the American Legion.

Former Mayor of Pasadena William Paparian served on active duty during the Vietnam War in the Marine Corps and continues to serve as a Captain (CA) in the California State Guard and as a Los Angeles County Deputy District Attorney.